Topics · Communication · 5 episodes, 4 guests
If this conversation feels hard, nothing is wrong with your relationship. You're both human beings who were never taught how to do this. Start with your own feeling instead of what they do wrong, like I feel disconnected when we don't have physical intimacy. Then tell your partner what has changed in your body and what feels different now.
Here are a few of them, with the episode where we talked about it.
Do you have no words to describe intimate changes in midlife? Discover why silence costs you pleasure and how to finally start crucial conversations with confidence.
Play episode 64Gabriella joins Dr. Tina Sogocio for conversation about what it actually takes to keep love alive through one of the most destabilizing transitions a woman can go through.
Play episode 115Gabriella sits down with Sari Cooper, AASECT-certified sex therapist and founder of the Center for Love and Sex in New York City, for one of the most expansive and shame-free conversations this show has ever had.
Play episode 111Practical ways to open the conversation with your partner about what's changed in your body, without dropping it mid-argument or turning it into a fight.
Read the articleTalking to your partner about what has changed usually goes better when you pick a calm, unhurried moment instead of dropping it mid-argument or mid-chore, speak from your own experience instead of pointing fingers, and treat it as an ongoing conversation rather than one big reveal. It takes practice. Starting small is enough. Read the article
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