Topics · Numbness & Shutdown · 5 episodes, 4 guests

Why do I feel numb and shut down in midlife?

Shutdown or numbness can feel like exhaustion, hopelessness and disconnection, and it often follows long-term stress or burnout. Apathy, flatness, hopelessness and stuckness are signals. That is what it looks like when a body has been running without permission to rest.

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I've asked 4 doctors and experts about numbness & shutdown

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Why Do I Feel Numb During Intimacy

Feeling numb during intimacy is common in midlife and it is not a sign that something is broken in you. Here is what it means and where to start.

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More questions about numbness & shutdown

Why do I feel numb during intimacy?

Feeling numb during intimacy in midlife is common and it is not evidence that something is broken in you. Hormonal shifts, stress, and old patterns of pushing through can all mute sensation over time. Numbness is not the absence of feeling. It is information, and it can change. Read the article

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